My "Banned" Interview
08/07/2016 18:28
What are your personal views towards sex and how did you begin as an escort?
I love sex and everything what's related to it. I view sex as a great source of fun, relaxation and endorphins :)
I've always been very sexual and a bit promiscuous. Already in quite a young age, I realized I'm attracted to older boys/men and that monogamous relationships don't satisfy me. So when I first got an offer to have sex for money, it didn't take me long to decide to go for it. I did the math and came to the conclusion that having lot of sex with various guys and getting paid for it is even better than doing it for free :D So I became a prostitute.
At first, I had some lovers who gave me "pocket money" and then I started to advertise as an escort and meet clients on daily basis. After a short time, I found out that working abroad is more lucrative and adventurous, so I started to travel for work to richer European countries. Nowadays, I mostly work in Scandinavia, France and in Prague, where I live, but I consider visiting other European countries in the future.
What are the popular requests you get from clients?
Most people want to meet me for about one hour long encounter and their popular requests are kissing, blowjob without condom, cim and girlfriend experience in general. I also get requests for longer appointments and overnights, which are more about companionship than about sex, but most of my meetings are the combination of both.
Concerning the requests for specific services, most of my clients want gfe, because that's what I specialize in. Or better said, it's the way I normally treat them, unless we agree on something else. Kissing, cuddling and lover-like attitude is what feels natural for me. My website and ad is targeted to the men seeking for this kind of experience, therefore gfe is the most common request I get. Many people also ask me for anal sex, prostate massage and giving them golden shower.
Do you have any preferences (age, look, experience, size, etc) and why?
Age and look are the least important things for me. In general, I prefer men who are experienced in terms of how to please a woman, but the unexperienced ones can be fun too. I like to teach them. I've met quite many virgins and in many cases, I didn't want to believe them they really had no experiences.
If it goes about the size, I don't like anything extreme. Apart from that, I don't care whether it's small or big, thin or thick. It's more about the technique.
I only have preferences about the clients manners and behavior. I like to meet people that are polite, respfectful and who want me to enjoy the meeting too. Since I'm careful and selective about who I meet, I rarely have clients who aren't like that.
Is it easy to establish good sexual chemistry and a good connection with a client?
I think it's all about being relaxed. So I just keep myself in a good mood and it seems to be working :) I just act naturally, wear casual clothes (unless they ask me to wear something specific) and I treat them like my lovers. Then in most cases, the clients are relaxed too and the chemistry and the connection just shows up. What clients don't like are the girls who are stressed out and the robotic proffesionals who act like they think they're the best girls in the world.
Do you fall in love with clients or keep it strictly business and professional?
I see romantic love that people write poems about as a set of chemical reactions, just like happiness or sadness. The sensation of feeling in love is given by the same set of hormones that are released when doing sports or eating chocolate. So to me, falling in love is something that can be controlled or even avoided, if I want. I sometimes feel that kind of emotion when spending time with some clients. I'm even able to feel "in love" couple times of day and with various people :) I always enjoy that feeling, but I don't let it fool me. First and foremost, I love my freedom.
Even though some of my regular clients are more like my friends, I always keep our relationships professional. We meet up, have a good time and conversation and that's pretty much it. I enjoy the time we spend together, but I refuse all the offers for unpaid encounters I get from them. I have a lot of good time with my clients, so I don't have a need to go for dates that aren't part of my job.
What are the challenges you face being an escort?
I sometimes have to deal with prejudices and stupid questions, but I believe that's something what everyone who doesn't go with the flow faces from time to time. When having to communicate with people, that are prejudiced or negativistic, I always try to remember that what they're saying is not about me, but about them and their lack of information.
Another challenge are various legislations about prostitution, which are said to be settled to protect the escorts, but do the exact opposite. That would be a topic for a longer article, I guess.
The challenges people often talk about, such as bad customers or sexually transmitted diseases can be easily avoided by not taking the risks, being well informed and by simply following my intuition.
Escorting is as safe and fun, as safe and fun I make it. And I love to have a good fun :)
Some months ago, I was asked for an interview for simplysxy.com. Although I sent them the replies to all their questions, the interview wasn't published. My replies are a bit too unconventional to be understood by the mainstream audience, I guess :D
What are your personal views towards sex and how did you begin as an escort?
I love sex and everything what's related to it. I view sex as a great source of fun, relaxation and endorphins :)
I've always been very sexual and a bit promiscuous. Already in quite a young age, I realized I'm attracted to older boys/men and that monogamous relationships don't satisfy me. So when I first got an offer to have sex for money, it didn't take me long to decide to go for it. I did the math and came to the conclusion that having lot of sex with various guys and getting paid for it is even better than doing it for free :D So I became a prostitute.
At first, I had some lovers who gave me "pocket money" and then I started to advertise as an escort and meet clients on daily basis. After a short time, I found out that working abroad is more lucrative and adventurous, so I started to travel for work to richer European countries. Nowadays, I mostly work in Scandinavia, France and in Prague, where I live, but I consider visiting other European countries in the future.
What are the popular requests you get from clients?
Most people want to meet me for about one hour long encounter and their popular requests are kissing, blowjob without condom, and girlfriend experience in general. I also get requests for longer appointments and overnights, which are more about companionship than about sex, but most of my meetings are the combination of both.
Concerning the requests for specific services, most of my clients want gfe, because that's what I specialize in. Or better said, it's the way I normally treat them, unless we agree on something else. Kissing, cuddling and lover-like attitude is what feels natural for me. My website and ad is targeted to the men seeking for this kind of experience, therefore gfe is the most common request I get. Many people also ask me for anal sex, prostate massage and giving them golden shower.
Do you have any preferences (age, look, experience, size, etc) and why?
Age and look are the least important things for me. In general, I prefer men who are experienced in terms of how to please a woman, but the unexperienced ones can be fun too. I like to teach them. I've met quite many virgins and in many cases, I didn't want to believe them they really had no experiences.
If it goes about the size, I don't like anything extreme. Apart from that, I don't care whether it's small or big, thin or thick. It's more about the technique.
I only have preferences about the clients manners and behavior. I like to meet people that are polite, respfectful and who want me to enjoy the meeting too. Since I'm careful and selective about who I meet, I rarely have clients who aren't like that.
Is it easy to establish good sexual chemistry and a good connection with a client?
I think it's all about being relaxed. So I just keep myself in a good mood and it seems to be working :) I just act naturally, wear casual clothes (unless they ask me to wear something specific) and I treat them like my lovers. Then in most cases, the clients are relaxed too and the chemistry and the connection just shows up. What clients don't like are the girls who are stressed out and the robotic proffesionals who act like they think they're the best girls in the world.
Do you fall in love with clients or keep it strictly business and professional?
I see romantic love that people write poems about as a set of chemical reactions, just like happiness or sadness. The sensation of feeling in love is given by the same set of hormones that are released when doing sports or eating chocolate. So to me, falling in love is something that can be controlled or even avoided, if I want. I sometimes feel that kind of emotion when spending time with some clients. I'm even able to feel "in love" couple times of day and with various people :) I always enjoy that feeling, but I don't let it fool me. First and foremost, I love my freedom.
Even though some of my regular clients are more like my friends, I always keep our relationships professional. We meet up, have a good time and conversation and that's pretty much it. I enjoy the time we spend together, but I refuse all the offers for unpaid encounters I get from them. I have a lot of good time with my clients, so I don't have a need to go for dates that aren't part of my job.
What are the challenges you face being an escort?
I sometimes have to deal with prejudices and stupid questions, but I believe that's something what everyone who doesn't go with the crowd faces from time to time. When having to communicate with people, that are prejudiced or negativistic, I always try to remember that what they're saying is not about me, but about them and their lack of information.
Another challenge are various legislations about prostitution, which are said to be settled to protect the escorts, but do the exact opposite. That would be a topic for a longer article, I guess.
The challenges people often talk about, such as bad customers or sexually transmitted diseases can be easily avoided by not taking the risks, being well informed and by simply following my intuition.
Working as an escort is as safe and fun, as safe and fun I make it. And I love to have a good fun ;)